Washington’s coastline is rugged, moody, magical — and perfect for the couple who wants to ditch the rulebook and make their day about connection, not convention. Whether you’re dreaming of windswept cliffs, moss-covered forests, or black sand beaches, this planning guide will walk you through everything you need to elope with intention and ease.
Step 1: Choose Your Coastal Vibe & Location
Washington’s coast stretches with unique beauty from north to south. Here are some stunning spots to consider:
Ruby Beach
Iconic sea stacks, driftwood-covered shores, and epic sunsets. Great for cinematic, moody vibes.
Visiting Kalaloch and Ruby Beach – Olympic National Park (U.S. National Park Service)
Kalaloch Beach & Tree of Life
A mystical stretch with a famous “floating” tree and dramatic backdrops. Ideal for symbolic ceremonies.
Cape Disappointment
Don’t let the name fool you — this state park is pure magic with its lighthouse, cliffs, and dense fog.
Cape Disappointment State Park | Washington State Parks
Rialto Beach or Second Beach (La Push area)
Remote and wild-feeling — hike in with just your packs, your love, and your vows.
Rialto Beach – Olympic National Park (U.S. National Park Service)
Second Beach Trail – Olympic National Park (U.S. National Park Service)
Ocean Shores & Westport
More accessible beach towns for couples wanting soft sand, surf, and a laid-back elopement vibe.
Seashore Conservation Area | Washington State Parks
Pro Tip: Opt for sunrise or golden hour for fewer crowds and softer lighting (aka dreamy photos!).
Step 2: Legal Logistics — What You Need to Make It Official
Washington State Marriage License Basics:
- Apply through any county in Washington (doesn’t have to be local to your elopement).
- $62–$70 application fee (varies by county).
- No blood test required.
- 3-day waiting period after application — plan ahead!
- Valid for 60 days after issue.
Ceremony Requirements:
- You need an officiant and two witnesses (18+).
- I’m happy to help arrange witnesses if needed — even your photographer can assist!
- Want a self-solemnized or symbolic ceremony first? Do the legal part before or after and keep the coastal moment all about you two.
Step 3: Permits & Considerations
National & State Parks May Require:
- A Special Use Permit for ceremonies or professional photography.
- Check with the National Park Service (for places like Olympic National Park) or the Washington State Parks site.
- Plan ahead — some permits take 4-6 weeks.
Leave No Trace Reminders:
- Stay on trails, don’t disturb driftwood or marine life.
- Avoid confetti or non-biodegradable props.
- Embrace nature respectfully so future lovers can experience its magic too.
Step 4: What to Pack for a Coastal Elopement
Must-Haves:
- Weather-ready attire (coastal Washington is unpredictable — bring layers!)
- Waterproof hiking boots (yes, even under your dress)
- Blanket or towel to sit or snuggle on
- Clear umbrellas (they look gorgeous in photos)
- Snacks & water
- Headlamp if you’ll be hiking pre-sunrise or post-sunset
- Marriage license & ID
Optional Fun Adds:
- Champagne pop or local beer
- Handwritten vows
- Polaroid camera for a few instant keepsakes
- Flowers from a local florist (or foraged greens if approved)
Step 5: Capture the Story
An elopement doesn’t mean less meaning — it means more room for intention. As your photographer, I don’t just show up with a camera. I help you:
- Plan your timeline to chase the light and the tide
- Scout your dream spot (or three)
- Calm nerves, zip dresses, tie shoes, and document every real, raw, unfiltered emotion
This isn’t just a session. It’s your story — your way.
Step 6: Make It Yours
Some ideas to personalize your coastal elopement:
- Write and exchange private vows on the beach
- Pack a picnic for two and watch the sunset
- Bring your dog (many areas are pet-friendly!)
- Go barefoot in the sand or dance in the rain
- End the night with a cozy beach bonfire or stargazing session
Bonus: Sample Timeline for a Washington Coast Elopement
2:30 PM – Meet at trailhead or parking area
3:00 PM – Hike to ceremony spot
3:30 PM – Vow exchange & portraits
4:30 PM – Candid adventuring, champagne toast
5:30 PM – Sunset photos on the beach
6:30 PM – Picnic, first dance, or snuggles
7:00 PM – Wrap or bonfire evening close
Ready to Make the Coast Your Ceremony Space?
Let’s plan a day that feels like you — no stress, no expectations, just adventure, beauty, and deep connection. I’ll help you every step of the way.
