Washington’s coastline is rugged, moody, magical and perfect for the couple who wants to ditch the rulebook and make their day about connection, not convention. Whether you’re dreaming of windswept cliffs, moss covered forests, or black sand beaches, this planning guide will walk you through everything you need to elope with intention and ease.

Step 1: Choose Your Coastal Vibe & Location

Washington’s coast stretches with unique beauty from north to south. Here are some stunning spots to consider:

Ruby Beach
Iconic sea stacks, driftwood covered shores, and epic sunsets. Great for cinematic, moody vibes.

Visiting Kalaloch and Ruby Beach – Olympic National Park (U.S. National Park Service)

Kalaloch Beach & Tree of Life
A mystical stretch with a famous “floating” tree and dramatic backdrops. Ideal for symbolic ceremonies.

Cape Disappointment
Don’t let the name fool you this state park is pure magic with its lighthouse, cliffs, and dense fog.

Cape Disappointment State Park | Washington State Parks

Rialto Beach or Second Beach (La Push area)
Remote and wild feeling, hike in with just your packs, your love, and your vows.

Rialto Beach – Olympic National Park (U.S. National Park Service)

Second Beach Trail – Olympic National Park (U.S. National Park Service)

Ocean Shores & Westport
More accessible beach towns for couples wanting soft sand, surf, and a laid back elopement vibe.

Seashore Conservation Area | Washington State Parks

Pro Tip: Opt for sunrise or golden hour for fewer crowds and softer lighting (aka dreamy photos!).

Step 2: Legal Logistics, What You Need to Make It Official

Washington State Marriage License Basics:

• Apply through any county in Washington (doesn’t have to be local to your elopement).
• $62–$70 application fee (varies by county).
• No blood test required.
• 3-day waiting period after application plan ahead!
• Valid for 60 days after issue.

Ceremony Requirements:

• You need an officiant and two witnesses (18+).
  • I’m happy to help arrange witnesses if needed even your photographer can assist!
• Want a self-solemnized or symbolic ceremony first? Do the legal part before or after and keep the coastal moment all about you two.

Step 3: Permits & Considerations

National & State Parks May Require:

• A Special Use Permit for ceremonies or professional photography.
• Check with the National Park Service (for places like Olympic National Park) or the Washington State Parks site.
• Plan ahead some permits take 4-6 weeks.

Leave No Trace Reminders:

• Stay on trails, don’t disturb driftwood or marine life.
• Avoid confetti or non-biodegradable props.
• Embrace nature respectfully so future lovers can experience its magic too.

Step 4: What to Pack for a Coastal Elopement

Must Haves:

• Weather ready attire (coastal Washington is unpredictable bring layers!)
• Waterproof hiking boots (yes, even under your dress)
• Blanket or towel to sit or snuggle on
• Clear umbrellas (they look gorgeous in photos)
• Snacks & water
• Headlamp if you’ll be hiking pre-sunrise or post-sunset
• Marriage license & ID

Optional Fun Adds:

• Champagne pop or local beer
• Handwritten vows
• Polaroid camera for a few instant keepsakes
• Flowers from a local florist (or foraged greens if approved)

Step 5: Capture the Story

An elopement doesn’t mean less meaning it means more room for intention. As your photographer, I don’t just show up with a camera. I help you:

• Plan your timeline to chase the light and the tide
• Scout your dream spot (or three)
• Calm nerves, zip dresses, tie shoes, and document every real, raw, unfiltered emotion

This isn’t just a session. It’s your story your way.

Step 6: Make It Yours

Some ideas to personalize your coastal elopement:

• Write and exchange private vows on the beach
• Pack a picnic for two and watch the sunset
• Bring your dog (many areas are pet-friendly!)
• Go barefoot in the sand or dance in the rain
• End the night with a cozy beach bonfire or stargazing session

Bonus: Sample Timeline for a Washington Coast Elopement

2:30 PM – Meet at trailhead or parking area
3:00 PM – Hike to ceremony spot
3:30 PM – Vow exchange & portraits
4:30 PM – Candid adventuring, champagne toast
5:30 PM – Sunset photos on the beach
6:30 PM – Picnic, first dance, or snuggles
7:00 PM – Wrap or bonfire evening close

Ready to Make the Coast Your Ceremony Space?

Let’s plan a day that feels like you no stress, no expectations, just adventure, beauty, and deep connection. I’ll help you every step of the way.